To anticipate comments from hecklers and trolls (ha, like I get that much traffic), I don't think it's because I'm not attractive. I think it's because I have a couple of douchebag filters in place:
- Small breasts. I am among the, as Kathy put it recently, tinily voluptuous.
- Abrasive personality.
#2, on the other hand, is largely voluntary, though I'm sure I'm giving off unconscious signals too. (For instance, my natural, relaxed expression is kind of a frown, and I don't usually actively smile at strangers unless they are:
- Exceptionally attractive, non-douchey men.
- Babies or toddlers (especially if they smile at me first).
- Well-dressed women (only if they smile at me first).
- Over 50, etc.)
Upon reflection, #1 is probably more important than #2, since hot bitches with nice racks do get approached by douchebags.